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But when you found one. Keep it…embrace it.

Maybe in the future nobody would need this answer anymore and for whole world LOVE will be just
some “chemical attraction between two people and nothing more”.Dark picture,don’t you think so?

If this will happen one day, people will have a new puzzle: “Where is the LOVE gone?”. This will lead to more the ‘biggest’ brains will try to solve it. Maybe they will find the answer-mistake, or maybe not.This all depends on them.

What’s love? Maybe every human being have the moment in their life when this question suddenly appear.But usually this question without any answer. How many philosophers tried to find the answer? Hundreds? Thousands? Doesn’t matter.They have failed.But they gave us the reason to try on this too.

One man is went to a cave to spend his life in searching for the answer. He is doing this not only for himself but for all other people because whatever he will say will be passed from mouth to mouth…
So, this man must find the ultimate answer to the question “What’s love?”. This man have a big responsibility. As he is philosopher, people will believe in him, listen to him and will use his words in their life.

It’s the same like television.

People who watches love stories on TV,they see such “colourful-jolly” love. People like these stories and they want to try this kind of love in their real life too. But the problem is that TV LOVE cannot be used in OUR REAL LIFE. It’s impossible. Real life is much more wider, more complicated and have different colours and dimensions. Unfortunately, people still trying to do this and when they failed, they will see just frozen sky over them and never believe in love anymore.

So, what I’m talking about? Oh, yea! What is the difference between the man who made love stories for TV and the man inside the cave?

1.TV
These are the people who will show us stories that will keep us glued to the TV screen every evening. They will made us cry or laugh. They will let us feel the emotions. That’s why, they will show us some perfect love stories – stories from our dreams. They will play on our emotions.They don’t give us any answers.They just make money.They don’t care that their stories is useless in our real life.

2.Philosopher aka Guy From Cave
He have spend his whole life searching for the ultimate answer but he have failed. He is very upset. When he leave the cave, thousands of people was waiting for his return. They look into his eyes and waiting for the answer. They have a big hope that this man will finally solve their problem. This man feels very guilty for unable to help all these people but he still tell them the truth that: “I have failed!”. He said this because he don’t want to give them useless answers and advices. He have failed and he realised that and the people realised that too now. Maybe they will hate this philosopher, maybe not but It’s completely up to them. At least the philosopher has been honest and truthful to them all.

Do you see the differences?

We can disregard the story about the TV movies, but let’s talk about the man from the cave.

Why he have failed? He tried to find the ultimate answer on the question “What is love?” but this question does not have any ultimate answer. Love is something from our heart. Our heart is our soul and our eyes is a mirror of this soul. Every human being have their own unique soul, a soul which is different from others. That is why there cannot be any ultimate answer. Every human being have his own love or view on love. Everyone must search for the answer on “What’s love?” in our own individual way. If you have found the answer do not share it with other people because they will listen and will use your advices. If they do, they will face the problem that the advices will not be effective on them because you show them YOUR individual way, not their way. That’s why,when somebody were to ask me “What is love?”, I will answer them “I don’t believe in love”.

I have the answer,but…
If say honest,I still searching and learning…

Alexander Pototskiy.Asia Without Borders.
Cameron Highlands,Malaysia.
June 2008…

P.S.:Trashy songs about love is good background for real love stories:)