
It’s not all about Numbers
February 21, 2009
Modern life has transformed most of human beings into a commodity. If he conducts investment, he wants to highest profit. If he has good job, he wants to the higher position in the company. The main objective is to change his skills, knowlegde and his personality package with other who are equally intent on a fair and profitable exhange. Life has no goal except the one to move, no principle except the one of fair exchange, no satisfication except the one to consume.
This condition may be influenced us to see the relationship. If one gives 100% of his love, other persons must give 100% of her love. Or maybe you are familiar with this sentence – so cliché ‘Our feeling is not the same stage’ or ‘I could not trust you 100%’.
How can we measure love? When we start talking about percentage of love, we will trap in the calculation of love, love may be up and down. Love may be decreased, then it could finally die because there is no room to grow.
Let the love grows naturally, everywhere, every part of our heart. Do not calculate it, do not limit it. To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person.
Well…sometimes it is not all about numbers!
Dedicated to Nadia G & Nicola M.